Look on your
DO NOT DO IT.
Very much can be, you will break a little time perhaps, many times until completely overcome a habit to control your child.
Come back to a starting point so many time, how many it will be required to overcome habitual reaction.
Look on your negative attention to the child as on dangerous drug and refuse offering it to the child further.
Instead follows: To keep friendly and valid tone in the relations with the child.
As earlier you were the supplier of negative attention, now it is important to offer in exchange something another.
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