He or she does
He or she does again so that to provoke you or someone else to take away all control in the hands; compels you to quarrel or punish, to approve or not to approve, ask questions, to look after, say that to do and what not to do.
As soon as you react thus, the child again it appears behind a door of cage; it thus, possibly, is unhappy, but at least in safety.
However and it lasts not for long, until then so far the idea about need to dispose of own life does not emerge in his consciousness again.
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