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The place is allocated for each group, but it is not isolated it is possible to make informative walk always!Threeyears the ny child can look as nineyearold is engaged mathematics by means of beads takes square to ren.He can ask it that it does.If this answer will give nothing to it, it will return to the room where there are things more interestingly.But sixyearold can already understand a little from that does nineyearold, and can remain to look, being trained in something thus.

Valya took

The old woman hardly went, Valais grudged for her, after all she was the kind girl, and Valya helped the grandmother to pass to the other side of the street.The grandmother goryakcho thanked the girl and gave it a candy with words: Here to you, child, magic candy.Make a wish, eat it, and it will right there be executed.Valya took candy and joyful went home.What to me such to think?she thought on the road.Here!Thought up!Valya exclaimed.

He or she does

He or she does again so that to provoke you or someone else to take away all control in the hands; compels you to quarrel or punish, to approve or not to approve, ask questions, to look after, say that to do and what not to do.As soon as you react thus, the child again it appears behind a door of cage; it thus, possibly, is unhappy, but at least in safety.However and it lasts not for long, until then so far the idea about need to dispose of own life does not emerge in his consciousness again.

And then

If you are in an equilibrium state if your energy is not spent for empty regrets, experiences, odyorgivaniye and lectures if in soul at you harmony and an order well at least the relative what to demand from modern parents of the impossible?you correctly oriented YOURSELF.And then you will notice dangerous symptoms and signs of trouble at the child in time and in time support him both morally, and physically.And never you will want to interfere without need, confusing the child, and yourself from feet for fatigue and tension.

Talking to other

The boy matured, left college where he perfectly got on well at all subjects, but after all continued to hate figures.Talking to other members of the seminar group, he remembered, what indignity always suffered, facing mathematics and as was angry and resisted when he had to deal with figures.We told it story about the boy who hated figures.He considered that arithmetic actions were to him too hard that figures existed only in order that to inflate him and to deceive, and did not want to deal with them in general.

And why it I lied

It pushed a door, but that was locked.And why it I lied that I have such huge doll, Lisa thought.That now to do to me with it such heavy, what even it is impossible to play with it.And here Lisa sincerely thought: Here I will see Masha, surely I admit that about the big doll I told lies to it.Only Lisa thought of it as the doll began to prevrakshchatsya in a cloudlet, and then disappeared at all.The door from the room itself was opened, and Lisa, carefully looking around, passed to the big deserted hall with columns.

Petya, all wet and dirty, wanted

But he was not able to drukzhit at all, and was only able to fight.He thought that only a fight and roughness it is possible to prove something to someone or to draw to itself attention.Children were afraid of it, and it almost had no friends.Once Petya saw on the road a big pool with razknotsvetny dirty spots.It approached closer better to consider it.And suddenly the car passing by sprinkled it water from feet to the head.Petya, all wet and dirty, wanted was to run the dokmy.But here noticed that is in a transparent big soap bubble.

Instead

Thus, sixyearold children can to receive ideas from the senior class.Instead of walls at us stand dividing partitions height on a belt, and it is always possible it is easy to get from one class to another.To children not a zapreshcha etsyatsya to pass from one room into another.If threeyears the ny child will go to the room to sevenyearold, eightyearold and nineyearold, he long there will not be late, because soon will see that there is nothing useful to it.Divider ny borders are, but there is no division between children, and all groups can be reported among themselves.

She also

She solved now to care of itself, as to reduce the uneasiness concerning consequences of sexual life of Natali, it provided the daughter necessary means for prevention of pregnancy.She also solved to imagine that it has a domestic bear cub, which, naturally, scatters all things, and with it there's nothing to be done.Care of mother of itself it was shown that in the wall case which was in the end here hall, it put a big cardboard box and, when at the end of the worker day came home, dumped there all clothes that found in a hall.

And the life

It is important.CONCLUSION This book is written to the help to parents, tutors and children not in order that you precisely followed it.It is our chance to think, discuss it with each other and with the children.And it is safer to make life of our children, so, more happily.And the life is surer and quieter, that is too is happier.After all actually safety consists of several components: Parental vigilance, that is ability in time to notice danger and to prevent it.

Look on your

DO NOT DO IT.Very much can be, you will break a little time perhaps, many times until completely overcome a habit to control your child.Come back to a starting point so many time, how many it will be required to overcome habitual reaction.Look on your negative attention to the child as on dangerous drug and refuse offering it to the child further.Instead follows: To keep friendly and valid tone in the relations with the child.As earlier you were the supplier of negative attention, now it is important to offer in exchange something another.

Steps which

Manifestation of parental love by means of: granting a sample for imitation and encouragement of ability to acceptance decisions.Steps which should be undertaken for the movement in this direction In the previous chapter we asked you to do that the professional psychotherapists call control transfer.We too well know: it is much more difficult to understand and do such transfer to you, than us to write about it.Already discussing inclusion of a number of points in the list of events of life the child, you could meet considerable difficulties.

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Therefore

And the stomach more never hurt it.Why?How you think?Selects others toys In this subject you can study the fairy tale As Vanya Learned to Be on Friendly Terms.Add it with details from life of your child and tell the kid.All children study on imitation.Therefore show every time to the child as it is necessary to behave with others of a detkma as with them to play.For example, approach the kid at a playground and ask for him or his mothers permissions to play with its toy.

From this

Civilizations, not to stigshy so high level of development, too left sv detelstvo of the material culture, though not such the thin.From this it follows that development of a thin motility goes together with spiritual development.Certainly, than utonchenny figure the nost, is required to those care and attention from outside more intelligence for the management of it.In the Middle Ages in Europe was period of great awakening of reason, both book, and manuscript, the reflecting new ideas, were richly illustrated.

I think, it occurs

For it it is the center, a result today, the bridge of transition to the future.I think, it occurs because the kiss is that shows and returns integrity.Therefore we kiss the child on a wound place that healed, again became whole … THE VERY MANY THINK THAT THEY ARE ABLE TO FLY Very many swallows, swans very many … But not really many think that together with strange fantastic horses children very many are able to fly … There is a remarkable old game, I consider it as the wisest and I call a tyepolovsky look tossing of the kid and his catching over the person or at the heart.

But such

But to you will insistently suggest to esteem, draw, look at an animated cartoon, to make charging.To you will not allow to remain to one with toys in the room, will not let out even to the yard.We, of course, exaggerated.But such situation will be unacceptable for you even if it will appear less sad.And for the child?Here the child approaches you with a request: Esteem!.Get together with it on a sofa, open the book so that it was possible to consider pictures.Read, then discuss the fairy tale, for certain, to the child something will be unclear, something especially will be pleasant, and something will frighten.

Everyone

But all this comes not simply as a result of maturing bodies of the movement.It always question of practical experience, in other words training.Everyone forms the skills independently, though an initial physical structure at all equally.The person selfimproves.Let's return to children.It is important to us to distinguish some storo ny child's nature.We have to realize first of all that, though children and nach ache to move, when their physical body in a sufficient sta penalty fee it is for this purpose prepared and though it occurs in force achievements of a necessary maturity by them, nevertheless sosto the yaniye of their mentality does not depend on it.

Let words

He unmistakably sang through, rhythmically accompanying on lamellar hand bells, names of days of week, months, seasons, flowers.Also he sang short phrases, figuratively using the own dictionary.Let words were also not always clear, but he made and sang such offers, as January crude, July vacation, December Christmas etc.Having applied the same technique to numbers, I found out that the boy cannot remember, how many sounds he just heard.He associated shout or whisper with loud and low sounds and with the movement generating the corresponding result.

Occupations

Cooperation of two schools, the Center and school at the clinic which is nowadays liquidated very helped us, and we, in turn, tried to violate the schedule of the child not strongly.Occupations took place in the mornings, at the beginning of school day, during a lunch break and after school.Till this time I had no experience of double relationship: one between me, mother and the child, others between me and the psychologistresearcher which was always present on occupation as the video operator.Having for the first time come home to the child, and I, and Mrs.

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Order of interposition

The block is installed on a workplace, the teacher is to the right of the child.Order of interposition of the teacher and the pupil it is important.So the child can watch action of the teacher at taking out and insertion of cylinders.The teacher takes the cylinder from the block and puts it on a table in front of the block.Thus it clearly shows how it is necessary to capture the button three fingers of the right hand fingers with which write.Then it pulls out all cylinders and puts them in a disorder on a table.

With it everything

Decisions which I make for myself, cost nothing.I cannot care of myself.We would like that you carefully analysed a way of yours thinking also changed in the positive direction everyone their these belief.For example: Parent My child is responsible for that does.In any situation he will make as it will be better for him.She can make decisions.With it everything is all right.I can entrust it care of myself.I do not know that he will make next time, and after all it is so interesting.

The family

It is possible to complain and suffer because of the wrong behavior the or the child.And it is possible to change that you are able to make and change.The child finds a support in a family.The family is a stronghold, fortress, the reliable back and smooth water where it is possible to recover, both to recover the breath, and to lick the wounds.And if the young person knows that here here!he will be supported and understood, will give a scolding and will forgive, and will judge not it, and that silly act which he made, both protected, and will help to understand where to one nevmoch that's when an environment, both stresses, and overloads will not set the fatal seal to the child.

But the tradition

But the most serious restrictions are accepted in area pi Tania.Millions of Indians who died from go recently lot, lived in the country, as any another rich with the small and cattle.But the tradition was so deep not to kill animals for food that this habit appeared stronger than death.Moral standards appear a superstructure obshchestven ache the life fixing them in a certain form.And not it is worth forgetting that these forms also owe ustanavl to vatsya on the basis of a consensus, within which their influence can extend.

To put it briefly, be convinced

Work a problem of negative installation of the child in communication by such in a way.First of all check, whether you provoke negative installation that dispose or slight your child or look at it, emphasizing the rejection, a rasserzhennost, disagreement.To put it briefly, be convinced that your installation is an installation friendly politeness.If installation of the child forces you to feel fear, as it sometimes happens when it is aggressive and hostile, decide that follows to undertake if the bad is followed by the worst and you, for example, really will strike; having made this decision, try to relax with feeling of that you know now, will act how exactly, and therefore to you already any more not it is necessary to puzzle over all this.

Purpose: development

Application: to tie a bow on the clothes or on clothes of other child.Help in independence acquisition.Metal cleaning Material: laying on a tray, liquid means for cleaning of metal in a bottle, a box with balls of cotton wool or slices emery paper, on a cup for dirty cotton wool and a small amount of a cleaner, a rag for polishing, not too small brass subject without jewelry.Purpose: development of coordination of movements.Cleaning of subjects from metal.

It the Forgotten

Alas, it not the only case when the child is forgotten.It the Forgotten Citizen living in the world where is much in total for all and anything for it.He aimlessly wanders in it the empty world, constantly getting to trouble, breaking the toys, vainly looking for satisfactions for the spirit, adults so far cannot understand, what his real requirements.We cleaned this barrier the schools and broke off a veil, the hiding truth, real things in the real gave to the child world, and we expected to see children's pleasure and pleasure from uses of them.

Full of with

If you wish, it can be presented in the form of a certain image a uvula of a flame, a jewel or the undercover lake, quiet, with smooth, without the slightest ripple a surface.Full of with the deep tranquility and pleasure, tranquillity and by force, it is in the full safety.It there it is deep in you.Present now that this flame, this jewel or this lake which is deeply in the center, in the kernel you, you.Present that this undercover center always stays in you, remaining same quiet and silent, through what difficulties, problems and you had to pass concerns.

We already

But mothers and fathers always need to remember: positive results can achieve, without looking at any complications.We already spoke about such problems as a delay of speech development, absence of the speech as that and an underdevelopment of the speech.Impossibility to communicate or inferiority of communication negatively influence formation of the identity of the little person, change his relation to world around and to themselves.The speech the servant of activity.

He understood

The yard was empty.Anybody did not welcome it.The dog got into the box, the cat climbed on a roof.It went to a grove.The sun hid for a cloudlet.Birches did not rustle with leaflets.The woodpecker, a cuckoo and other birds departed.Nobody sang in the wood.Kolya felt such lonely.And he wanted that everything was as earlier.He understood that all on this zemkla his friends, and friends it is impossible to offend.Since then he never offended anybody and did not fight.

As at early

This is the remarkable, active, vigorous, strongwilled person, Zhenya spends with him all free time, discusses everything on light.The young man admits that no friends are necessary to him, except the grandfather.As at early age Zhenya was ill much, houses preserved it against everything, the question of kindergarten never was even brought up, and in school and from school of the boy still see off the grandfather or mother.The inability and unwillingness of the boy to communicate with contemporaries, lack of experience of interaction with companions, features of uzkosemeyny education erected before Zhenya the real barrier for fears, uncertainty, uneasiness.

Individual

Didactic materials serve first of all to promote spiritual formation of the child through I correspond to age development of its motility and sensorika.The child acts independently, his internal forces are released that gradually step by step it could become independent of adults.Individual and social development form unity of contrasts.Only it gives the chance autonomous and the independent personality to realize difficult behavior society.For the child of Montessorimaterialy there is a key to the world thanks to which it orders and learns to realize the chaotic and raw impressions about the world.

She cannot

It is a socalled phenomenon a kick to a cat, expressed in behavior of the business woman who came back home from work after the rating received from the chief.She cannot kick the chief as it will be immediately dismissed and therefore breaks rage on the next, animated being on an unfortunate cat.Grief, dejectedness almost constant satellite of divorce.This state is natural at such trouble, and to children as well as adults, it is necessary to pass this painful stage connected with split of a family.

Her father

She was offended and offended everything she all wanted only good.Her father who reached in the despotism excessively was worse than others: in forty five years having remained the widower, he conceived to marry again!And when the daughter resolutely opposed it, brought the woman into the house and, without undersigning, lived with it nearly twenty years, to the most death.This behavior it compelled the daughter on hasty, on courtship, marriage: left, if only from the house to leave, for unloved, for peasant.

Actually, an occasion

Actually, an occasion already in a failure; the father the girl literally locked houses, she spends all evenings in the room, to phone her do not call up.The father and the daughter practically do not talk, the last attempt ended talking once again a manhandling.It is not necessary to think, as if the girl absolutely inveterate; she perfectly studies the only three for the tenth class in chemistry, and her father already repeatedly remembered, studies languages, everything is in time, everything at her turns out.

The same

Actually prois continuous internal growth, which suddenly goes about is in a series of the opening conducting to fast change.It is followed by one more period quiet and slow developments, the preceding next strong explosion.The same in the childhood happens to human language.There is no quiet and slow progress, when at first there is one word, then another, but here we too we meet an explosion phenomenon as it is called by psychologists, to the tory is not provoked by actions learn at all tel, and occurs in itself without everyone on that visible reasons.

You know

Correctly mother told.Arrive as you just made: wait a little, consider everything, scroll everything in the head that you could make, and imagine that would be if you made it, and then choose the best option.You know how it is necessary to pronounce this situation to help itself to keep calm and to make a right choice.You know that?told Annie.It is very healthy when you let the brains time think.It knocked on the head.You were right she added.I think that with my head really everything is all right.

The requirement

We told it only, that our room for it is closed.The requirement that it was carried everywhere, did not renew never any more.One morning Andy politely asked the father to take it in the evening on soccer, and Mr.B.felt that agrees to make it.Desire to leave the house.In this regard Andy was still independent.If mother objected concerning its leaving, it could tell the approximately following: I want to leave and if I get to trouble, itself I will be guilty in it, then it left.

But follows

Then we purposefully start working.But follows us to try to go some other way.It is idea natural me hanizm, or more likely mechanisms imposed on at native processes, acting irrespective of consciousness, and these surprising mechanisms, or their groups, develop in depths, not available our direct nablyu to deniye.We have only the external certificate them sushchest the vovaniye well visible and the general for all people.How all this picture, separate was amazing its details impress even more.

Noticed that

Often complains of boredom and monotony, says that everything bothered.Very small appetite.Eternally is upset on trifles even when to be upset there are nothing.Flatly one refuses to remain, even in the room.There was a bad habit for example, to sniff, often to lick lips, to cough.Noticed that pulls the head or raises shoulders.The head all time is as if pulled in in shoulders or shoulders are raised and it is necessary to remind that released.

There are many

It is old shy children willingly explain, and this manual represents great value, because reason fiveyearold so is closer, than ours, to reason of the threeyearold child that the kid easily learns that would be difficult to inform us.In communication between two children there is such harmony what it is rare you will find between adults and the small child.There are many such things which any teacher cannot to transfer to the threeyearold child, and fiveyearold does it with ease.Between them exists natural psychologists chesky interchange.

Here for the first

Thomas Gordon Training of efficiency of the parent.Here for the first time we felt real help.This course laid the foundation to our formation as also allowed to see equal members of own family in children interesting, reasonable and responsible people.We studied psychology of family life and the psychotherapy at university, was received by scientific degrees on psychology.We started working as professional consultants for families teenagers and their parents, appeared in crisis situations.

Mother tells

The boy who is very developed, umnenkiya, the speech at him developed, competent.Gosha is able to read and consider, knows a lot of interesting, with pleasure performs various tasks which I offer it on occupations.Well knows about the stutter and worries, but generally because stutter afflicts mother.Mother tells that Gosh often should leave at home one when he is on the mend after an illness as it cannot long be on the sicklist.She found out that Gosha, having stayed at home alone, often gets into a big box and sits in the shelter.

Great, great, squirrels

Yes, the wolf agrees.This is the greatest Hare.He too won against me, and now I have to bring every day for lunch to it carrots!Precisely, it is the Hare, greatest in the world!the bear roars.It so beat me yesterday that now I have to bring every evening to it for dinner honey!Otherwise he in general from the wood will expel me!Watch all there is a great and mighty Hare!sorok chirred.Great, great, squirrels assented.VeliKVAlepny, veliKVAlepny, lyakgushka croaked.

And when

You now under my protection!Also there were Olya and Murka the best friends.Olya ironed Murka on the head, scratched behind an ear, gave to drink tasty milk.And when Murka wanted to play, bound a piece of paper on a thread and ran away, and Murka with pleasure pursued it.The management for the beginning fairies Mother: Well, what at you new?Adult daughter: Here bought a hat, black, velvet.Mother: And, it is such, what else in the past goduiz fashions left?

To communicate

How many still zlyuchkiny it is necessary to draw, crumple and throw out!But, as Chinese speak, the way to one thousand miles begins with the first step.To communicate with the child at all does not mean constantly to surround him with close attention and to control each step, giving an assessment to all actions.Imagine that you for a minute are not left alone, checked that you do, whether want to eat, whether froze as feel.Imagine that you are not given anything to do: to clean up a cup suddenly will break, neither to wash up independently hands will have a shower bath, nor to get the book from the shelf drop.

Perhaps, we will

Duties of the editor of the cool newspaper seemed to it the good beginning.After Selli's lessons told Annie: We should gather to choose articles for our newspaper.Well Annie answered.She simply could not wait for this moment.Perhaps, we will go to you home?offered Selli.The smile disappeared at once from Annie's face.Nno!scaredly and confusedly she told.To me it is impossible.Why?Selli was surprised.I still never was at you the house.

After all on it there

Having limped almost to turn, the duck suddenly stopped and turned back.And you it is not cold, a crumb?she shouted by the strange voice reminding a sound of an automobile horn.Annie nodded as she really was cold.After all on it there was only a sleeping pajamas.A little bit far away, on the road there is a plashchik the duck shouted it.It was left there in the morning by the little girl.I think, it will not be against if you use it.After that the duck was behind turn, accompanied by five fluffy zheltenky balls.

Zhenya's parents

Or a push for its emergence?Happens and so that parents enter an antagonism, trying to prove correctness of the method of education and the treatment of the child.Often the father tries to fight fire with fire.Zhenya's parents worked abroad therefore till three years the boy lived at the grandmother.Zhenya grew the timid, quiet child.When parents came back home, they took away the boy to themselves and gave to kindergarten.And here it became clear that the boy is afraid to sleep in a garden, badly eats, cries, does not want to play with other children.

Psychologists

dii.iyue word.However, one nouns all fathers it is impossible, and first it is compelled to express all llili and.in a word.Psychologists pay much attention yuiy which children use instead of offers.They N of I i.t, sweating the generalized words or sometimes words with I 'shirenny sense words offers.Seeing, and make for it a dinner, the child speaks мамжин, having in to them iMother, I want to have supper.

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  • The place is allocated for each group, but it is not isolated it is possible to make informative walk always!Threeyears the ny child can look as nineyearold is engaged mathematics by means of beads takes square to ren.He can ask it that it does.If this answer will give nothing to it, it will return to the room where there are things more interestingly.But sixyearold can already understand a little from that does nineyearold, and can remain to look, being trained in something thus.
  • The old woman hardly went, Valais grudged for her, after all she was the kind girl, and Valya helped the grandmother to pass to the other side of the street.The grandmother goryakcho thanked the girl and gave it a candy with words: Here to you, child, magic candy.Make a wish, eat it, and it will right there be executed.Valya took candy and joyful went home.What to me such to think?she thought on the road.Here!Thought up!Valya exclaimed.
  • He or she does again so that to provoke you or someone else to take away all control in the hands; compels you to quarrel or punish, to approve or not to approve, ask questions, to look after, say that to do and what not to do.As soon as you react thus, the child again it appears behind a door of cage; it thus, possibly, is unhappy, but at least in safety.However and it lasts not for long, until then so far the idea about need to dispose of own life does not emerge in his consciousness again.
  • If you are in an equilibrium state if your energy is not spent for empty regrets, experiences, odyorgivaniye and lectures if in soul at you harmony and an order well at least the relative what to demand from modern parents of the impossible?you correctly oriented YOURSELF.And then you will notice dangerous symptoms and signs of trouble at the child in time and in time support him both morally, and physically.And never you will want to interfere without need, confusing the child, and yourself from feet for fatigue and tension.
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